Hey Friend,
How does it feel being engaged?? I hope you're doing well! I know you've been thinking a lot about your upcoming marriage and whether or not you're marrying the right person, and I just wanted to reach out and give you some advice on how to figure that out.
First off, trust your gut. I know you, and if something feels off or you have doubts, it's worth taking a closer look at those feelings. After all, your gut is like your own personal bat-signal for when something is amiss.
Also, make sure you and your partner can talk openly and honestly about your feelings, fears, and hopes for the future. Can you work through conflicts and disagreements like a boss? Good communication is key to a strong and healthy relationship, and without it, things can get real messy real fast.
Think about the values and priorities you share with your partner. Are you on the same page when it comes to important stuff like family, religion, and finances? These are all important things to consider in a long-term relationship and can make or break a marriage.
And remember, no relationship is perfect. There will always be ups and downs, but it's how you and your partner handle those challenges that will ultimately determine the strength of your relationship. Just like a rollercoaster, it's all about how you ride the ups and downs.
Just wanted to give you some food for thought. Trust your gut, communicate openly, and think about the values and priorities you share with your partner. Good luck, and let me know if you need anything.
Love,